I know what it is like to blame yourself for walking away from your marriage and away from God. But He has a plan and a purpose for your life. That is why He has called you back into His loving embrace. That is why He has called you to stand for your marriage. This is a good first step.
Sometimes God calls us to wait for His answer. Sometimes He doesn't have everything ready. While He is working on the situation around you, He is also working on the landscape of your heart and the hearts of those around you, getting you ready to step into blessings already prepared for you.
"For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay." Habakkuk 2:3
"This is what the LORD says: "In the time of my favor I will answer you, and in the day of salvation I will help you; I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people, to restore the land and to reassign its desolate inheritances. Isaiah 49:8
This thing called standing is something that God places in our hearts. We should be honored and privileged that He has called us to this important assignment - to stand in the gap for those we love. Your continued, faithful prayer will make all the difference.
Bob and Charlyne always tell us to go to God with everything. I have found that when my heart is hurting, when I don't know which way to turn, when I don't even know what to pray for, their advice is the one thing that works. I take it all to God in prayer. It doesn't always change the situation, but it always changes me.
These answers have developed in response to questions we have received over many years. May you consult the answers with an open Bible and an open heart, thus allowing God's Holy Spirit to help you find the truth.
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